I promise you, taking that moment between receiving and responding during an argument will give you a sense of strength and power far greater than the feeling of winning an argument. Impulsive responses often don't reflect who you really are, what you want to say or how your want to say it. All it takes is that tiny moment, those 30 seconds that save you from saying something you cannot take back and being that person you do not want to be. Give yourself that moment. Radhi.