10 Signs you are a Healer. 1) You feel the pain of others and have extreme empathy. 2) You notice that strangers open up to you easily. 3) You tend to have vivid dreams often. 4) You need to help people, you don't see any other way. 5) You can't stand crowds and feel overwhelmed by them. 6) You're highly sensitive. 7) You believe you're a spiritual person. 8) You're an anxious person and may have been diagnosed with anxiety. 9) You 've experienced depression. 10) You can feel the energy of others, especially if it's negative.