Boundaries. It's not my job to: Heal others. Please others at my expense. Make it work if the effort isn't mutual. Continuously compromise. Tip toe around you. Anticipate your needs. Change myself to your liking. It is my job to: Heal myself. Listen to my needs and my desires. Respect myself and my time. Be my true authentic self. Set healthy boundaries that protect my energy. Leave when I'm not being valued. Say "No" when it's not in alignment. Be mindful with my "Yes".