You can change your wife, you can change your job, you can change your house, you can change your religion, your church; still you will be the same. All these changes are superficial. They are just like painting your face black, white, red, but deep down nothing is changed, you remain the same. You have to become more aware. And awareness is not a question of doing, it is a question of being. It is something about your essential core, nothing about your circumference.